Is it possible that after all that has gone on...what lies in the future might not be so dark after all? There still is hope for excitement, joyous times, vacations, good food...good movies...and good company.
Whenever a tragedy occurs...we just need to go through the 5 stages of grief...and things will be okay again?
Stage 1- Denial
Stage 2- Anger
Stage 3- Bargaining
Stage 4- Depression
Stage 5- Acceptance
In going through the 5 stages, I have definitely seen denial....it still lingers though...but...after awhile....kinda caught on. The anger part...it was...still is more at myself than anything else. The only part in this whole thing that I could have controlled...was my emotions...and perhaps my actions. So nobody to be blamed but myself. Learned the lesson the hard way, but I'm sure it will serve me well in the future. Bargaining...tried getting in touch with god one time. Am convinced now that....whether god exists or not is rather irrelevant. As a long as we believe, and it gives us a sense of security...I'm game. Depression...of all the stages, think I am in this one now. Feeling really lethargic everyday, can't eat much, used to not be interested in anything...better now though. Don't think I am quite at accepting everything yet...but even the fact that I can begin to imagine better days is a huge step. Kudos! :)
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