Friday, December 17, 2004

Note to self : Learn this...and learn it well!

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This is the 3rd time I've edited this paragraph...there is an important issue on my mind...but expressing it seems so difficult. It's an easy concept to understand but trying to say it without sounding like a broken record is difficult. So what the hey...

Until recently, don't think I have fully understood the importance of having a strong support system...or if I did before...it was somehow lost in translation.

It doesn't really matter how much stuff you have...money, nice clothes, shiny objects, a fancy car that cannot be driven out in the rain...when you don't have people to share those stuff with...it doesn't mean much.

Having always wanted to travel the world...solo if need be...I'm beginning to realize that...it doesn't matter where you are....without a strong support network...once again...it doesn't mean a thing.

People in relationships...no one person can provide all the support you need...if you do make the mistake of depending on one person...you're really opening the doors to disaster.

While romantic, the notion of being so deeply in love that you only have eyes for one person is silly.

Placing all your eggs in one basket was never a good idea.

But I guess that some stuff in life...you just have to make the mistakes that your forefathers have made...in order to learn them.

Ironic isn't it...you get warned over and over again...even your intuition tells you to run the other way..yet when it's your turn to step up to the plate...history repeats itself yet again.

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