Monday, March 24, 2008

Date.Com

In my pursuit of love and lust, there have been boys of all kinds. I've gone out with Indian boys, Chinese Boys, White Boys, Pakistani Boys (actually just one of this kind) and who knows which else. Online dating knows no boundaries.

In this day and age, dot com dating is in almost every single person's "been there, done that" list. Many of my friends have tried it, friends of friends have tried it. And the funny thing is, the part people enjoy most seem to be where you share horror date stories with your friends after. I now have one that will top most of my friend's stories in the past little while. Yay, me!

Having been on the I'll-ignore-you-forever-after-the-first-meeting end of the bargain, I'm finding it really difficult to do that to others. It really bears down on a person's self-esteem. However, it is also not right to say yes to someone whom you have no interest in even as friends.

I suppose it is also wrong to say yes to someone just for the sake of entertainment, right? Because you have nothing better to do? Or that you just wanted to practise your dating skills? Perhaps it is wrong to do but cest la vie. My new philosophy about dating, men and the such...the more you not care, the more they will chase. Let's test out this new philosophy for a bit. Let it cruise.

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